Alright! You read the title, came here running and now it’s our job not to send you back disappointed. However, it’s our responsibility to enlighten you with the reality of dating apps in Delhi.
Moving forward, we will share hacks for Bumble but these can be applied to Tinder, DIl Mil, Truly Madly and other dating apps. The location should be Delhi or let’s widen the scope, Delhi NCR.
Let’s start with the reality check – Any girl out there has a minimum of 500+ matches and 10,000+ likes. Before you lose hope, 95% of them won’t be able to reach the first date. (Will tell you later why).
This means, getting a match isn’t the end, it’s the beginning. What we are going to tell you will put you in the rest 5%. Stay with us.
Optimising Your Profile- A pic with a pet, a pic with guitar, a pic of your vacation. Lol! these ain’t gonna work.
The bottom line of the bottom line is – You can’t impress every girl out there. It’s like going to a marriage and having every dish out there. IMPOSSIBLE! (Sorry if the analogy was terrible)
So what to do, decide which one do you want to date? A vibrant outspoken one, an introvert silent one etc etc etc. Think like this way, my nature is xyz (be honest with yourself) and I want to date xyz type.
Get your profile like that and Tadda!! step first step done.
Moving to next, Be honest while swipping, don’t right swipe everyone. Take your time looking at the profile, don’t rush. Why did you ask? Because algorithm of every dating app loves human and not robot. Don’t be a robot for God sake!
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The third and the last one is patience. You will get matches but stay ready not all of them will give a spark and that’s absolutely normal.
We know you have been waiting for this, that 5% group. Guys! don’t be desparate, that’s the biggest turn off! It’s a match, and not a world cup trophy, don’t take it like a big deal or atleast don’t behave like it’s a big deal.
Interact, talk, make it meaningful, do anything but please please don’t jump to the next step so quickly, or rather, let her take the next step. This could be connecting on any social media platform, or exchanging numbers, or even a meet.
Whatever it is, DON’T initiate the next step. Let her take it, and why? Well those 95% have already, please don’t join that group, humans love chasing, just don’t be available this cheaply.
Reality check again, she has a lot of matches, her side is dominating. Let her have that advantage.
Lastly, this ain’t a 100% super successful formula. However, this for sure will increase your probability of getting a girlfriend. Good Luck!